Let’s Set the Record Straight: It’s Tantric Lovemaking!
Mesmerized, I am watching the burlesque, almost medieval, show of the Danish media that debates the “sex sect” Natha Yogacenter. As much of what is being said is directed towards me, it is time to set the record straight once and for all! I am accused of being a mastermind of criminal activities and a figure of immorality but without being asked what is happening. For all of you who also have a feeling that the media is not presenting things in a fair way this article can clarify a lot of things. For the ones that are only looking for sensationalism this is a party breaker, it is removing the exciting gossip with the sober face of reality.
What is with the sex accusation?
In some newspapers and TV shows Natha Yogacenter has been depicted as a sex organization (even a sex-sect). And I was portrayed as the number one porn actor of MISA (the Romanian sister organization of Natha). As a tantra teacher and practitioner I can see where the confusion can appear for the last statement. Tantra is the spiritual science that gives each aspect of life the proper attention, including sexuality, but to say that the whole school is only about sexuality is a grotesque exaggeration that I cannot agree with. If tantra is including sexuality on its list of methods for spiritualizing the daily life this is not a reason to consider that a school that is teaching tantra is a sex organization. Especially not here in Denmark.
Isn’t this the country that started the sexual revolution in the ’60s? The country, yes, but maybe the wrong generation? It seems that this is the generation that will praise the kids’ star (Bubber) that participates to an S&M session but is horrified by a tantra teacher who believes lovemaking can be sublime and dare to show it.
For the record let’s set some things straight:
- I strongly believe (and I have the proper experience to prove it) that lovemaking can be sublime and can aid (but not replace) the spiritual evolution.
- I believe that people can become free of their sexual obsession not by repressing it but by learning how to uplift it to another level of experience.
- I believe (and I experience this) that with proper knowledge man can share the multi-orgasmic capacity of the woman to their mutual benefit.
- I believe that lovemaking is given to the human being as an expression of the love we have in our heart.
On the issue of sexuality this is what I believe!
However, my interests in life are diverse and vast, reaching far beyond the sexual level. I am educated in nuclear physics and worked as a scientific researcher in the field of artificial intelligence. The scientific spirit is still very much a part of me and I apply this also in approach to the Tantric path. It is with this desire for experimentation and firsthand personal experience that I came upon a very interesting possibility – to explore the world of tantric lovemaking in a practical way and to be able to share this openly with others.
Based on my beliefs about lovemaking (exposed above), and on my direct experience, I have participated in (and initiated) a project where, together with some friends, we aimed to build a different image of lovemaking. In this new view, which corresponds to the tantric teachings, the control of the sexual energies allows the lovers to develop their feelings in an ever-expanding union. It was the intention of sharing that drove this project from the very beginning. What we have discovered by practicing the tantric teachings the way the great tantric initiate Gregorian Bivolaru teaches them is so revolutionary and life changing that we wanted to share this with everyone. Gregorian Bivolaru, also known as Grieg, is the founder of MISA yoga school and my spiritual guide.
I could see so many amazing implications from understanding these tantric teachings and applying them in the daily life that sharing was the natural choice for me. And to this day I am consistent to this idea, practicing, teaching and writing tantra.
This movie project was a youth dream that we pursued just as others are starting a rock band or go for a sailing trip around the world. We dared to expose what we had been experiencing in our intimacy without being afraid of being misjudged. I was aware that these tantric teachings that Grieg offers to the world are revolutionary in many ways, and therefore they carry the great risk of being met with resistance in the beginning. But wasn’t it in Denmark where almost half a century ago some brave people dared to break the patterns and to contribute to the elimination of some of the taboos on this subject. I still hope that there are people in our generation that inherited the “revolution gene” from our parent’s generation and that will understand our attempt.
We wanted to stay away from the documentary style and make movies that are more artistic, daring to explore intimacy in a profound way. On purpose we chose to show more explicit lovemaking in order to suggest the right attitude to the viewers. Instead of awakening primary lower instincts, we intended to depict genuine beautiful feelings that are expressed through intimacy and lovemaking.
They are not porn movies; they are movies about Tantric lovemaking
I strongly disagree with the stamp that what we are doing is pornography. In fact what it is is a new idea about representing intimacy and eroticism that carries a message not only explicitly (by the teachings suggested) but also implicitly. The people involved in these movies were having real relationships, they were really living in the way it was shown in the movie so that the viewer would have the chance to learn the right attitude and position themselves from the right perspective regarding this experience. Filming these movies was in itself an amazing experience for the whole team.
The tantric lovemaking that is presented in these movies is based upon some fundamental ideas that make it completely different from pornography. I know that for a mediocre journalist, that doesn’t have the inspiration to say something profound and interesting in the same time, sex and pornography are an easy solution instead of tantric lovemaking. What would be the exciting news in saying that a tantra teacher is making some tantric lovemaking movies? It would only be advertising and would not have the desired damaging and scandalous effect 😉
For those who are open-minded and are not looking only for sensationalism, here are some of these characteristics of movies about tantric lovemaking:
- Tantric lovemaking movies are based on LOVE and therefore always follow the ways of the heart. All people involved have a deep love relationship and they only display what they really feel to openly share with the others. In pornography there is a professional approach in which intimacy is reduced to sex. Actors are partners and not lovers in the profound sense.
- Tantric lovemaking movies are motivated by the magic of sharing and giving from the wonderful richness of their relationship to all the others. The material gain is not an issue. In pornography the only motivation is money and personal interests.
- Tantric lovemaking movies suggest (due to the states that the people in the movie are having) an elevated passion, that is not instinctual but rather uplifting. Pornography stirs the inferior instincts and a cold approach towards each other.
- Tantric lovemaking movies do not show sex but lovemaking and always contain explicit and implicit lessons about lovemaking with perfect lucidity, love and control of the sexual energy. In pornography we see sex (mostly without love) and it contains no ideas or lessons about lovemaking or intimacy.
- Tantric lovemaking movies promote a new way of living out intimacy that is enriching the life of the one that is practicing it. Even just watching such a movie will give something to the viewer that is uplifted. Pornography is only reducing everything to the instincts and lessens the intimacy. The viewer is lowered.
The alleged involvement of the yoga school
MISA and Natha were never involved in this tantric movie project, and they have never had any financial or administrative ties to this. And the fact that my personal choice to experiment with tantra will affect my work in the yoga school is a discrimination that is strange, especially in the Danish context. It is a violation of my freedom to choose and shows ill-intention behind the scenes.
It is true that some of the people close to me (some even from the yoga school, but not only) wanted to join me in this project, but it was because they shared the same beliefs with me. And they were free as I was. This, however, never involved any presentation or act of persuasion within the yoga school, not even in the tantra classes that I am teaching. Being a private project, the participants joined in based on their freewill.
To accuse Natha of being involved in porn movies of any kind is like accusing Enrico Fermi (the physicist who developed the first nuclear reactor) for the fabrication of the atomic bomb. The tantric teachings are indeed giving me the possibilities to experience all the marvels of refined intimacy when love becomes lovemaking. But the school that is teaching them is by no means involved in this private project.
As for Grieg, he was not involved in any way more than being my mentor and teacher. He never even talked with me details about this project, nor was he in any contact with it.
The members of a karate club often work as bodyguards for different companies, but this doesn’t mean that the karate club is responsible for all the fights that might take place in the night clubs between the bodyguards trained by the karate club.
Follow the money
In all the accusations the journalist invariably ends with insinuations about the huge amount of money we have made. In a way this is understandable since this is the only motivation that drives the sex industry. There is big money involved and when you want to find some crimes one of the infallible methods is to “follow the money”. But in this case the journalist failed to do this, stricken by a strange case of professional amnesia.
In this project of tantric lovemaking movies that I started it was never about the money. This can be easily proven by the contracts with the distribution company BN Agentur from Denmark that paid less for these movies than it cost for the trips for the team to make them. To make money from this product would have involved compromising the ideal in order to make it sellable on the sex market. And this was not acceptable for us.
Then, if it was not pornography and there was no profit involved, why all the accusations? Are they not discrimination? A violation of my freedom to choose to believe and live the way I consider fit?
Or is there something else on the agenda at the root of all these accusations, putting a bad light on the school by using me and my choices as an excuse? It is becoming increasingly clearer now that a hidden agenda exists and these accusations, as politically incorrect as they are, are serving its goals. About this I will talk later…
Why in Denmark?
I have been asked by some people how come I ended up working with Danish porn movie producer and distributor BN Agentur, owned by Barny Nygaard?
When we started this project we didn’t think of any administrative and selling part. Only when we finished did we start to look for people that are interested to share these ideas. I was talking with many big companies and nobody wanted to risk being part of bringing out something new and revolutionary. And this is when I came to Denmark to talk with Barny. He was very enthusiastic from the first talk and said he will take the risk to invest into this project, to promote another kind of eroticism that is based upon tantric teachings. They were the only ones open and willing to take the risk to try distributing such new perspectives on a market that is very well structured around the idea of instinctual sexuality.
How about Sublime Erotica?
In the end of 2002 I was asked to come to Denmark to help Natha Yogacenter with the teachings. Coming to Denmark and starting to teach in Natha, there were some students that were inspired by this tantric lovemaking movie project. A student in one of my tantra classes was Canadian born movie director Jean Baptiste Miro. We privately talked about this project and I told him about all the ideas that were animating it. He was very enthusiastic and started his own company Sublime Erotica in order to attempt a continuation of my project. In this attempt he was joined by some colleagues from his class and also one or two tantra teachers from the school. Yet this was the only connection that existed between me and this project – as an inspiration and being the tantra teacher of some of the participants. They developed it on their own and in ways that are not connected more with the school or with me.
See here a comprehensive interview with the director and owner of Sublime Erotica, Jean Baptiste Miro.
Conclusion
All we did was to have a dream and to live up to it. Why is our dream less valid than the dream of Alex de Renzy whose film “Pornography in Denmark” kickstarted the sexual revolution in the ’60 in Denmark? Since when have we become so afraid of people that are courageously experiencing some ways that seem out of reach? Are you not curious about the findings that we have? What if we were right? What if one can truly transform their lovemaking into an exceptional life experience that will completely fulfill both lovers to an extent that was never met before? What if men can truly and immediately share the multi-orgasmic capacity of women? What if this new way of being intimate and making love is much more fulfilling than mere sex from all perspectives once you know how to do it?
Wouldn’t that be something?
If Denmark once started the sexual revolution, is it not time for the Tantric revolution to also appear in Denmark? I believe it is not a coincidence that I write these things here in Denmark, nor is it a mistake that there is a spark of debate and interest here and now.
I understand that all generations dream of having their revolution they can participate in and I believe that our generation can bring to the world – among other things – this revolutionary way of being intimate with each other and of making love instead of only having sex. And this can begin in Denmark! Now it is up to you …
I encourage those of you who have an opinion on this subject to leave a comment. If you want to take it even further you could also write to the newspapers or to Bubber’s show and let them know your opinion on this subject.
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There are so many swing clubs in Dk and they seem to be ok for the society.. But when there comes a school with valid teachings in whatever regards human potential, of course, there are some who yell, because they want to remain as they are. Transformation was never easy and it takes courage to dare to look deep into your being and start to improve. Tantra is for everyone, but especially for the daring ones.
@curious how does this article find you?
Very interesting indeed, the danish society used to be more relaxed in what regards sexuality. What’s with this reaction now? There were less taboos in Dk from what I remember, a while ago. Where is the freedom that we all knew? And what is so wrong with going deeper into this huge potential we all have and using it with love?
I am in this school for many years. My life and relationships have tremendously improved ever since, on different stages. I am sure any woman can tell a difference between a 2-5-10 mins of love-making to over 8 hours.. The quality of the relation is way different afterwards and not to mention the state of inner fulfilment, happiness and you simplu become better in whatever you do. Personally, I am very grateful to all I have encountered in this school, to the deep and serious, all-encompassing knowledge that I have now and to the person I have become due to this and to the transformations that occured within me, over the years.
Before coming to this course, I was feeling something was missing in my life and didn’t know what was that. Like many, I have tried different things, from monasteries to martial arts, to going around the world.. and around me, still having the same hunger for something more and had no idea what was that. The information and the friendships I have made quickly once I got to this school were perfectly matching with my thirst, which was for knowing me actually.
Tantra has done magic out of my life, for me personally and for the many kinds of relations I have, lovers, but also related to my family, job, life.. I am also reacting much wiser to life challenges, and this is exactly because through practice I have come more close and real to the real core of my being.
I know it is a new subject for many and may be a challenge for the beginners, but it has to be a beginning for humanity to blossom to its exceptional potential, and this can be done pretty easy once you understand that what moves life..
It’s far more than sexuality, but it does not deny it, but uses it to its real beauty. Love is a requirement out of which there is no discussion of tantra or tantric principles.
Chapeau! for the article!!! and thank you so much for your point of view.
Watching carefully the show, and reading the arguments that you make in this article – I am very glad that you have refused to give interviews to Bubber – as inevitably they’d come twisted and truncated only to support his thirst for superficial sensationalistic fame. His body language, his mimics, the pressure in the way he conduct interviews and his so-called excitement of “unmasking a ~felony” clearly point that no sensible discussion would have been possible.
Not only his show does not present “things in a fair way”, but it is extremely lame done!!! a simple google search would help him to dismantle most of the claims, if not all, that his “main expert” Kim Schmok is making in the film… and not necessarily about the school, as well, lets say the man is entitled to have an opinion, but about the teachings and the principles of Yoga and Tantra that Schmok scorns about and presents them as vices of Grieg.
I got intrigued by such statements, and I went online after the show to look whether it could be just an individual obsession, or could it indeed be part of authentic Tantric teachings – and as I said, a simple google search already pointed me to several original Tantric treatise. Apparently, Bubber didn’t bother to do the same, not to mention about visiting a library and research a bit on Tantra – if indeed he is curious to understand why some people choose to live differently than the overall, dormant, society. Either he is too stupid or superficial to have thought of that, or he intentionally didn’t do it. That makes the show lame in former is true, or criminally manipulative if true is the latter.
Whether to the presence of this individual Kim Schmock in the show, and the fact that he is quoted so often – just adds to complete discrediting of Bubber as journalist. I would have fired him only for allowing such personages on air. That guy is so obviously an attention seeker, I am really curious how the footage with him passed editorial filter. At least Bubber could have tried harder and find someone with a critical point of view, but with healthy, common sense.
Well, pity for Danish people to have such a lame show and unprofessional show. I trust that viewers and critics will acknowledge that.
Hello, everyone. I am a psychologist I and am also practicing yoga and tantra for 12 years now and Advaita is my teacher.
The knowledge in this school, put in practice more and more correctly, has helped me tremendously in understanding my patients, their mental patterns and life questions. Understanding myself better and including harmoniously in my being elements I would have otherwise ignored, transcending fears and boundaries or wrong settings, I and my life have become very rich and beautiful. It is true, real tantra brings fruits in all life areas and you simply become better in whatever you do.
So what is wrong in being able to rejoice multiple orgasms, folks? IF you ever had one, you cannot say that.. Even a tiny one and life becomes.. much more beautiful, isn’t it? Is it any problem that in this school we are tought to be also Aware and to deepen Love? The power to control the energies of your being lies in you 😉 and there is nothing else as a cause to whatever failure you may constantly encounter.
I personally am a multiorgasmic woman and live a very happy and fulfilled life.
I hope this nonsense attack against the school will end soon and even bring upfront the value of its teachings.
Thank you, Advaita, for helping me objectiify myself in so many occasions and for being always an uncompromising and courageous person.
I have great admiration for the loving, well-controlled and compassionate manner in which Natha and Mr. Stoian have acted under the pressure of an unfair media attack.
With misatv.ro and concordiatv.tv the end of and enchained and manipulative media promises to be closer than ever before 😉
And for the movie: ‘Natha – At vende sort til hvidt & hvidt til sort
en undersøgelse af en sandhedsaktivist’ congratulations to Mr. Porslund !
Natha’s active love has given birth to an amazingly accurate, objective and even beautiful documentary movie.
“Heal them all!” is my urging message for concordiatv.tv to heal the obviously sick part of the media today manifested so superficially in the Bubber show ! (the exclamation echoes from the TV series ‘Spartacus’ where the hero is urged to ‘Kill them all’).
The noble and sublimated (*using even humor – see the cartoons with Bubber in the bath top on Natha’s homepage) attitude towards the enemies of Natha reminds me of the Dalai Lama who repeatedly calls for manifesting compassion and learning from the precious lessons brought by the enemy….
Lovely, clear and classy response! I am curious how the danish media will react now.
@Lukas
The media was graciously ignoring all these answers even if previously it was said they are waiting for an answer from me. This is not a surprise for me since there was a clear intent from the very beginning to only present one side of the story and then put it on ice for another period …
Maybe you will want, at a certain moment, to present for us, your readers, in a simple way, what this tantra school is about and which are its core principles and applications in one’s life. Perhaps there may be many interested to find out about this.
Very Strange! And why to put it on ice for a period? You mean there are no journals in DK to publish this story?? even if not BT?
Really odd what is going on there. I can understand if this would happen in Romania, but it looks like danish media acts just like the romanian one does, when they have an order to do such a thing. Extended communism in Denmark? It is known the fact that there is no romanian justice and real media.. I would not have expected to see this in the North..
Maybe you could organize a press conference in Natha, invite the media and answer live to whatever questions, IF anyone from the media would bother to join? They cannot be all rabbits there.. even if so far it is only a proof of cowardliness that they show.
I wish to leave here a brief comment about this topic.
I am an engineer, I am not from Denmark, but I had the pleasure to be and learn with Advaita a few years ago, and even talk with him personally about some of the issues approached here, such as the movies, which I have seen and learned a lot with.
I never felt from Advaita the want to manipulate or get me involved (in spite of my obvious interest). Actually he talked about what he did, how and why he did it (in the same way presented in this article), and how important it was to help the world get a different perspective on sexuality and Love.
In my view, this is a move of excellency and of brilliancy. Advaita did this out of his own interest and will to share, but I see this as a needed move into a global revolution. Not many people are interested in esoteric arts, the percentage of the population that is curious and open towards spirituality and tantra is not even close to constituting a critical mass for a global change in the way human beings approach Love and sexuality.
But there is an ocean of human beings (where I was included) that are searching activelly for pornography. Most people know inside that what they have cannot be it, there must be something more. And in this search for something more (on a sexual level), they resort to all that there is: pornography. What I have learned from the teachings of Grieg, and from my personal talks with Advaita, was the practical way into the real “something more”, which most people don’t even suspect exists.
So again, in my view, to make tantric lovemaking movies is brilliant, desirable, and probably a genius way to reach a huge amount of souls in this world that are unconsciously searching for the true potential of their beings.
I know I was unconsciously in this search, that has since then become more conscious. My whole life was changed for the better through personally meeting Advaita, through the tantric lovemaking movies, and through the spiritual teachings and practice given by Natha and by Grieg.
I do not feel manipulated or brainwashed, I feel happy, blissful, I am enjoying and experiencing life, relationships and sexuality at a totally different level.
Hearing that Advaita is being considered a “mastermind of criminal activities and a figure of immorality” cannot but awaken a sense of irony inside of me. For as I said I am not from Denmark, I had the pleasure to learn with Advaita the most life-changing teaching I ever encountered in my life and in my personal case I did not pay for this, nor did I pay for the extra hours he spent answering all our questions and doubts from his obvious first hand experience with what he teaches.
So who exactly is abusing who here? 😉
I feel in my heart a deep and profound gratitude towards Advaita, Natha Denmark and Grieg, for all that I was, and still am, offered, for all they teach, and for their incomparable courage to stand together with the Truth in front of such a libel and slander campaign.
Dear Advaita, I have to underline here the integrity, love and compassion that I feel in your answers.
Thank you for standing up for yourself and in this way standing up for all of us and for Truth.
I do not know contacts to newspapers or the “Bubber” show, if it would be possible to make these emails available I would be happy to send them my reply also.
Together in Love and Spirit,
Ronan Pinto Goulão
@Ronan
Wow, it was very beautiful and touchy what you said. This is also the opinion of numerous people, including myself, who perhaps are not so much into starting to express in this way, at least not yet. There is this kind of situation where people who are preoccupied with their spiritual evolution are not that much of internet users or even willing to stand up for their human fundamental rights in a world where democracy is truly dead and where fighting corruption became a necessity as the one of fighting a cancer that became completely aggressive and anarchic to even be acknowledged it is a disease.. But we should, yes, and it is happening although it is a slow process. Sometimes it feels awkward to set up a standing up base for the truth and the sake of human potential if it is done in a more unconventional and non conformist way, and use love and the light of consciousness as your weapons, for if not, it would be the same humanity self-destruction promoted. Slowly but surely people are coming out, like you, because there was too much humiliation and manipulation already.
As for the contact you asked Advaita, I just found out yesterday the facebook contact of BT: https://www.facebook.com/ditbt . The twitter contact of TV2: https://twitter.com/tv2dk and their facebook https://www.facebook.com/tv2dk . Also here TV2 can be contacted for different complaints: http://tv2.dk/2013-02-22-kontakt-tv-2 via email. You can also contact TV2 here: http://sr.tv2.dk/klagevejledning/ and to Eye Works here: [email protected] .
Unfortunately, so far they did not accept to publish in any way any of Natha’s or Advaita’s reply as a response to their shameful allegations. One may wonder how in the world is that possible, and still, it happens. Just like it happened in Romania, which was and still is a communist dominated country where justice is dead and the media plays with people as with toys..
If all the ones that have been helped in different ways during years and that are actively loving and appreciating this school and Advaita would come out now, and this phenomenon of ostrich-ization due to the banning the media and politics imposed over society against anything genuine and that has a high potential of setting people free, would turn into courageous standing for the development of the human potential – none of this set-up would ever take place again.
With love,
Helen
If I may, I want to congratulate Mr. Mihai for the way he came forward with this. I am very much inspired for what you and your team did and your work and the way you share this achievement.
Your life and work has always filled me with questions but also filled with wonders..
For your readers, here are 2 interviews that show bluntly all the evidence needed to prove the only real interest to damage this school, a school that is otherwise inoffensive and pacifist, but not for the communists and their interests which still prevail:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=h8beNAc61lw#! and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HRmpX9aRs_c .
It is kind of shocking to see the real politic character and all this manipulation against whoever wishes to live free of the robotic man imposed by those behind the scenes…
@Helen
Thank you so much. I have sent an email to BT with my thoughts on the subject and also with what I hope is still the valid code of the press in Denmark, that for sure is being severely violated in this subject. I leave it also here for reference that more people can use:
A. Correct information
1. It is the duty of the press to convey correct and prompt information. As far as possible the corrections of the information should be verified.
2. The sources of news should be treated critically, in particular when such statements may be coloured by personal interest or clevious.
3. Information which may be prejudicial or insulting to somebody or detract from other persons’ opinion of the person concerned shall be very closely checked.
4. Attacks and rejoinders should, in cases in which doing so is reasonable, be published consecutively and in the same way.
5. It shall be made clear what is factual information and what is commentary.
6. Headlines and subheads shall as regards form and substance be substantiated by the article or publication in question. The same rule shall apply to so-called content bills.
7. Incorrect information shall be corrected on the editor’s own initiative if and as soon as knowledge of errors of importance in the published information is received. The correction shall be given such as a form that the readers can easily perceive the correction.
from – http://ethicnet.uta.fi/denmark/the_national_code_of_conduct
Standing together, in Love and Truth,
Ronan Pinto Goulão
@Ronan
Thanks, Ronan! I know of some other people who have written to BT as well, and they still act like ostriches, as someone wrote here..
I bet the media is aware of these rules and does not care, since it is way too much copied the whole story as from the romanian one, in other words, it is a clear set-up maneuver in exactly the same manipulator way. It comes clear for anyone following the situation that they had this as a precise order and give a sh*t about correct procedures or about what is true and what is not.
In this fashion, no wonder that any of us and whoever on this planet, can wake up one day and find his reputation destroyed and his life messed up if he suddenly becomes a ”black sheep” in the eyes of the ”elites”, who wishes nothing more than to live free and complete.
That much of a justice we have..
Muy obrigada, Ronan 😉
Who knows, perhaps if we remind the danish media about this code, they will start to reflect a bit more on their own, IF they are allowed.. you might be surprised..
These exceptional movies together with the tantric knowledge contest the idea that the only man capable to keep a woman up all night is the one wearing pampers.. 😉
Life has been so rewarding to me since I started to practice sexual continence! It improved tremendously in quality and will not change back for as long as I live. Learning how to live and blossom in all life areas using this life energy that is sexuality, yes, is opposite to the decay of the consumer society that has so many lacks.
Thank you so much for all your continuously renewed efforts to offer to us new life perspectives and daring insights within the educational human field!
@Ed
Excellent joke Ed! (with the man wearing pampers 🙂 ) Now i have one more strong argument for the lectures. Thank you.
This reminds me of a joke.
Radio question: “What can you say regarding men’s education?”…
Answer: “So that you can understand me well.. Education is like erection… if you have it, you can tell”..
Thank you, Advaitananda, for this sincere explanation.
I am not a Romanian, neither Danish, but I am a member of this yoga school.
I came to know about these Tantric lovemaking movies already during my first year of yoga in this school. Nobody told me of them, but on a Google search referring to yoga, I have seen a link to such a movie. In the beginning while starting to watch it, I was in a great shock and wasn’t sure whom in the school should I ask about it; I didn’t know who knows about it and what was the story of it. I was also in a shock from the idea of making such a movie, since in my mind at that time, it was in conflict with the ideals of yoga (which in the last period in India, took the direction of sexual abstinence).
But eventually, I collected my courage, went beyond my prejudices and I sat down to watch the entire movie, while preparing my being for a process of transfiguration. I then found myself amazed with excitement. I have never seen such a unique movie which offers an insight into the intimacy of authentic Tantric experiences of a very high degree. It helped me to open my eyes and mind to other forms of authentic spirituality. I then agreed in my heart that creating this movie was indeed an act of authentic spiritual inspiration. And after reading your article, indeed, why not, we all deserve to fulfill our fantasies of transforming the world into a better place.
I am glad to see your open response on this subject, which answered some of the questions that were left unsolved throughout the years. I am also grateful that if any future yoga practitioner in our school will encounter any of these movies in the future, that he or she can find a sincere and public response which explains the motives that were directing such a work of spiritual Tantric art.
With love and appreciation!
@ arnaldo
Thank you for your feedback. It is such a wonder to see how everyone will find their path to the truth when honestly searching for it.
Hi. I love what you wrote here. I see sexual (as well as love) repression as one of the most acute and dramatic issues of our times. Just as to express means to live, to repress means to die. To me, sexuality is actually a matter of .. humanity, trust, deep connection, freedom and self knowledge. All the self-flagellation supposed by this repression lies in an aggressiveness full of hate towards all that what one represses. From here it comes the aggressiveness of the mostly immature, inexperienced and unaware people towards anyone that assumes the free expression in any human area, and especially in the sexual area.
In a tantric couple, love making is beyond forms, being a complex and complete deep interaction, the eroticism is incredibly increased, yes, but it also widens the horizon of your perceptions and it brings along peace, wisdom and ecstasy. Growing up as a woman in a tantric couple, with your colossal and mysterious charge that is shocking for a plagiaristic humanity, comes together with assimilating the masculine wisdom to entrust the woman. Liberated femininity.. is full of significance and existential archaic imprints, but all this can be revealed only under the intelligent ”surveillance” of the self, with its warmth and wisdom..
So, yes, it actually is a love, awareness and sexual revolution already what this school is upbringing 😉
Thanks again for your thoughts and revelations. Whoever sees this openness of yours should better evaluate the equilibre and honesty of those who accused you so passionately and see who are their friends (if they have any), what kind of life they have and who trusts them. I know you are here to offer something good and that you expose yourself to a level where most people would piss their pants.. I appreciate the way you live freely life. Cheers!
Today I’ve heard a story from a young woman who has two kids, a boy and a girl. Kids were home alone and the ‘forbidden channel’ was unlocked so they got to see the sexual act. Very fact that there was forbidden channel in the house means that somebody is watching it. Kids were curious to try what they saw… The point I am trying to make is that kids come across sexual act, in one way or another. And we are all doing it. Well, most of us and the others would also love to be doing it. So what’s all fuss about being so secret about something so natural, so alive and so part of everyones life, even a monk’s life.
There are Chinese manuals showing parents in love embrace initiating a small child into the secrets of sexuality, there are different rituals of initiation into the mysteries of Eros but we despise them. And brother and sister or friends experimenting after watching a porn somehow can happen and we accept it.
I believe that today’s society needs serious re-education in the field of sexuality and Eros. And what I discovered by now is that it really matters and it makes a huge difference if we simply have sex or we make love. These movies are so wonderful and inspiring, uplifting and pure. Honestly, I believe that the ones accusing ‘actors’ are watching them at home 🙂
I want to thank all of you who made these beautiful movies and Advaitananda for openly talking about it.